100 Ways to Romanticise Your Life

You may have heard of the phrase, "romanticise your life." 

Living romantically means seeing the world with a sense of wonder, as if through rose-tinted glasses, noticing the beauty and goodness around you.

When done in moderation, romanticising life can be simple and impactful. By practising gratitude and shifting your perspective, you can appreciate even the small, ordinary moments.

Practising gratitude and enjoyment in everyday moments can seem difficult, but over time, you can develop healthy habits that will seem to make a difference in your everyday.

Here are 100 Ways to Romanticise Your Life:

1. Take yourself on a date

2. Walk in nature 🌳

3. Dance like no one is watching 💃

4. Plan a picnic 🧺

5. Buy yourself a gift

6. Dress for yourself

7. Light a candle (relaxing scented ones are great)

8. Start journaling (bullet journals, etc)

9. Write a letter 💌

10. Have a luxurious bubble bath 🛀

11. Ditch your phone, and social media apps, and unplug your devices 📱

12. Read an insightful book 📖

13. Rearrange or redesign your space

14. Slow down your routine

15. Be present in the moment

16. Flower arrange 🌷

17. Try mindfulness in your everyday life 🧘

18. Explore therapy

19. Create a morning or evening routine

20. Get a new haircut 💇

21. Get a facial or use a face mask 💆🏻

22. Be grateful for the small and big things

23. Give gifts even though it's not an eventful day

24. Try solo travelling 🌍

25. Set boundaries with yourself and others

26. Adopt a healthier diet

27. Write a book or novel 📖

28. Try an artistic hobby (art, drawing, pottery, or crafts)

29. Listen to heart-fulfilling music

30. Create a vision or manifestation board

31. Spend time with your pets or animals 🐈

32. Indulge in scents (candles, perfumes, incense) 🕯️

33. Visit a location you haven't been before

34. Learn a new language

35. Try grounding techniques

36. Compliment someone

37. Go to the cinema 🎥

38. Wear matching pyjamas

39. Change your bedding (satin or silk bedsheets bring a luxurious feel)

40. Practice positive affirmations 🫰

41. Try a visualisation meditation 🧘

42. Keep your environment tidy and clear of clutter

43. Try stargazing ✨

44. Keep a dream journal 📖

45. Connect with your spiritual side or ancestors 🔮

46. Visit a new restaurant or cafe 🍛

47. Decorate your space with happy items (plants, pictures, candles, etc)

48. Stretch to improve your flexibility every day 🤸‍♀️

49. Adopt three signature hairstyles

50. Explore new makeup routines and use skin-friendly products

51. Keep a book of your favorite recipes

52. Adopt easy habits (make your bed, open the curtains, etc)

53. Make a photo album 📸

54. Create lists and notes for important things

55. Plan thoughtful activities with friends and family

56. Wake up earlier, go to bed earlier

57. Create music playlists for different moods 🎶

58. Create a bucket list of all your dreams

59. Adopt a healthy sleep routine (7-9 hours)

60. Take photos (try a Polaroid camera for an aesthetic feel) 📸

61. Have a traditional tea party 🫖

62. Join a social club (chess, dance, gym, spiritual, etc)

63. Try sewing or embroidery

64. Play an instrument

65. Write a song 🎶

66. Have a manicure or pedicure 💅

67. Sing a song or try karaoke

68. Try spiritual healing 🔮

69. Create a Pinterest board

70. Go thrift shopping

71. Clean out your closet

72. Change up your fashion style

73. Declutter your phone 📱

74. Bake cakes, sweets or pastries 🍰

75. Do yoga (at home or go to a class)

76. Try herbal teas (chamomile, fruit teas, etc) 🍵

77. Prepare your meals for the week ahead

78. Learn your deficiencies and take vitamins

79. Use lotions and skin creams 🧴

80. Use quality hair care products and serums

81. Improve your dental hygiene (tongue scraper is a must!) 🦷

82. Use highlighters and fun pens when taking notes

83. Watch a Studio Ghibli movie (these always set the vibe)

84. Go on holiday or vacation 🥳

85. Go on a road trip

86. Don't chase, attract

87. Wear rings, earrings, and other jewellery 💍

88. Wear hair accessories 🎀

89. Read inspirational quotes 📖

90. Watch inspirational documentaries

91. Become an expert in a topic you enjoy

92. Educate yourself

93. Know your worth and practice saying no

94. Know what drains and gives you energy

95. Have a sleepover

96. Hold a fancy dress party 🧛‍

97. Be honest with yourself and others

98. Practice shadow-work 🔮

99. Accept what is not in your control and focus on what is

100. Practice forgiveness

This is a selective list you can pick and choose from; you may be doing some of these things already.

Romanticising your life does not mean you have to do everything listed here, but from experience, some of these ideas have helped me feel better. 👇

For example, last year I went through a phase of wearing hair accessories, especially large scrunchies and hair bows. Adding them to my look felt transformative, subtly shifting my style and identity. It allowed me to explore a version of my style that felt fresh and enjoyable, moving away from my usual, everyday outfits.

I also had a growing interest in embroidery, even though it’s not a common hobby among my friends or peers. I was drawn to it purely because I found it beautiful. So, I ordered a beginner’s embroidery kit—a charming squirrel design—from Etsy. I spent hours happily stitching, immersed in the process, with my favourite Netflix show playing in the background.

Exploring the little joys that make you happy is a powerful experience in understanding ourselves and what sparks us joy. If you desire to try something new, don't hesitate as it could be your next calling! 💗